Parent-Teacher Conference Tips

Parent Tips For Effective Parent/Teacher Conferences

Some Things to Keep in Mind

Parent/teacher conferences are an excellent opportunity to gauge your child’s academic progress and create an ongoing dialogue with your child’s teacher.  

Getting Ready:

• Ask your child if there are topics he/she would like discussed with his/her teacher.
• Write notes to yourself about your child’s personality, learning difficulties and study habits – aspects that you feel the teacher should know. Take these notes with you to the meeting.

Helpful Questions to Ask at the Meeting:

• What is your classroom homework policy? Is homework graded?
• What are the skills that you expect my child to master this year?
• Is my child working up to his/her ability?
• How do you accommodate for learning styles?
• How can I stay involved in my child’s learning?

During the Conference:

• Be respectful of the teacher’s time and arrive promptly.
• Begin the conversation on a positive note.
• Discuss your notes concerning your child’s learning habits.
• Ask your most important questions first – in case time runs out.
• Listen to the teacher’s comments and be open to feedback and suggestions.
• Ask the teacher for specific suggestions on ways to help your child reach his/her potential. This is the most important part of the meeting. If the teacher says something that you don’t understand, ask for clarification. Don’t be shy.
• Take notes so you can discuss the meeting with your child.
• End the meeting by reiterating the actions that will be taken by the teacher or you.
• If needed, schedule a time to meet again.

After the Conference:

• Develop an action plan, then work with your child to implement it. Be sure to make learning fun.
• Stay in contact with the teacher and continue to discuss your child’s progress.